When caring for yourself or a family member, it can be difficult to know when extra support may be needed. Many families begin by noticing small changes that gradually become harder to manage at home.
This guide outlines some common signs it may be time to consider a care home, helping families reflect on their situation and explore care options at their own pace.
When to consider a care home
There is no single moment when a care home becomes the “right” choice. For many families, it’s a gradual realisation that day-to-day support is needed more often, routines are becoming harder to manage, or safety and wellbeing are becoming a concern.
Considering a care home does not mean giving up independence. Instead, it can be a way to ensure the right level of care, support and reassurance is in place for both the person receiving care and those supporting them, with many care homes supporting people to continue leading an active and independent lifestyle.
Signs it may be time to start looking for a care home
Every situation is different, but families often notice similar patterns over time. Here are some of the signs it may be time to start looking for a care home.
Increasing care needs
If day-to-day tasks such as washing, dressing, eating or moving around are becoming more difficult, this may indicate that additional support is needed. As care needs grow, providing consistent support at home can become challenging and families may decide this is the right time to start exploring options for help with personal care and daily support.
Seeking new social connections
For some people, a care home can be an appealing lifestyle choice, offering opportunities to build new friendships, enjoy shared activities and be part of a welcoming community. Care homes provide regular social interaction, organised events and communal spaces, which many people value as a positive change from living alone.
Safety concerns at home
Frequent falls, missed medication, difficulty using appliances or concerns about being left alone can raise questions about safety. A care home environment is designed to provide round-the-clock support and reduce risks.
Changes in health or mobility
Worsening mobility, long-term health conditions or recovery following illness or hospital stays may make independent living harder. In some cases, residential or nursing care may offer more consistent support.
Memory or confusion
For people living with dementia, increased confusion, disorientation or changes in behaviour may signal that dementia care could be beneficial. Structured routines, trained care professionals and dementia-friendly environments in a care home can provide reassurance and familiarity.
Support for carers
A care home can help give carers a break and peace of mind, while still enabling them to stay involved in their family member’s care and remain an important part of day-to-day life.
Recognising that care needs are changing can be difficult. Many carers feel unsure, guilty or overwhelmed when considering a care home for a family member.
Support is available, and speaking to professionals can help families understand what options exist. Short-term solutions such as respite care can also provide breathing space and time to reflect, without making a permanent decision straight away.
How to decide if a care home is right for you
Deciding whether a care home is suitable involves understanding both care needs and personal preferences. Families often consider:
● The level of care and support required
● Whether needs are short-term or ongoing
● How safe and manageable life at home feels
● The importance of companionship, routine and reassurance
Exploring care homes, asking questions and discussing options with care teams can help clarify what feels right.
Things to consider before choosing a care home
Before choosing a care home, it can be helpful to think about:
● The type of care needed (residential, nursing, dementia or respite care)
● Location and ease of visiting
● Facilities, environment and atmosphere
● How care is assessed and reviewed
● Fees, funding and what is included
Making the next step
Noticing the signs that it may be time to consider a care home is often the first step in a wider conversation. Care needs and circumstances can change, and decisions do not need to be made all at once.
You can explore different types of care, search for a care home near you, or get in touch with our team of professional Care Advisors for guidance and support.